- To meet the physical, emotional, and social needs of teens
- To stimulate the bored and academically-challenged
- To fulfil teens by engaging them in
volunteer work and social causes, i.e. political, social and
environmental
- To include the ostracized, the
excluded, the alienated, the isolated, the lonely
- To provide fun and healthy programs
(i.e. not smoking cessation, self-esteem, anger management,
etc.) and thereby mitigate the increase of
teen depression, suicide, eating disorders, crime, violence,
school shootings, pregnancy, substance abuse, school
drop-out, gang or cult involvement, etc.
- To encourage creative and individual
expression, debate and philosophy versus force feeding
information (per school) or dogma (per religion)
- To facilitate bonding among youth, to
unite and bridge gaps of dissension among "groups" or
individuals in competition with each other at school
- To allow communication, providing teens
the opportunity to talk and listen to each other, to learn
of each other's views and become acquainted with the gamut
of world views and lifestyles; to expose youth to
responsible adults to whom they can talk, ventilate and
process the difficulties of adolescence
- To empower and respect youth, creating
harmony between adults and youth that results in an
integrated community
- To harness the energy, talent,
intellect, maturity and passion of teens yearning to create
a better world
- To demonstrate for teens a community
that cares
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* To skip the "why" and get to the "how" click
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What's happening
at a high quality teen center?
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. Rock Climbing . Hiking . Biking .
Environmental Awareness . Social/Political Discussions .
Activism . Improvisation . Volunteer work . Yoga . Meditation
. Cardio Kick Boxing . Salsa Dancing . Hip Hop . Swing Dancing
. Tango . Sign Language . Cooking Classes . Energy work .
Reiki Healing . Dream Analysis . Drum Circles . Volleyball . 3
on 3 Soccer and Basketball . Boxing . Drawing . Painting . Art
. Ceramics . Self-defense . Roller Hockey . Tennis . Writing
Circles . Book Clubs . Knitting . Quilting . Choir . Socrates
Cafe . Support Groups . Mentoring Programs . Day trips .
Concerts (with teen bands) . Spoken Word . Acoustic Cafes... |
According to reports, teens are more likely
to "get into trouble" between 3 and 6 pm than at any other time
(including weekends). In fact, after school most teens retreat to
empty homes. Many watch television or movies, go on-line, play video
games or listen to music... some are bored and depressed.
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. 2500 US
teens attempt suicide every
day |
Most people (especially teens) crave
involvement and interaction. Effective youth centers and after school programs staffed by
caring adults provide opportunities for the uninvolved to be
involved, to experience pleasure through challenging activities and
interaction with peers and adults. Meaningful programming is the
hallmark of any successful teen center.
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Teens just
wanna have fun... like hello!
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What
teens don't need are more "prevention programs". What are "guest
speakers" and "experts" on "school safety" and "drug awareness" but
strangers with no relationship with the members of their audience.
Plainly said, teens don't respect adults they don't know. Heck, they
barely respect adults they do know. Teens don't want
lectures about abstinence and they're not particularly attracted to
"smoking cessation" or "anger management" groups. More then
anything, after school and on weekends teens want to have fun in the
company of responsible, caring, open-minded adults. Alas, the need for youth centers and after school programs.
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FYI
Fatherless homes account
for: . 63% of youth suicides . 90% of homeless/runaway
children . 85% of children with behavior problems . 71%
of high school dropouts . 85% of youths in prison . Over
50% of teen mothers |
Consider a few cultural realities since
1980:
- increased divorce rate
- rise in double-income families
- existence of 24-hour access to internet, innumerable
television channels and movies
Teens are exposed to an increase of influences (not in itself
bad) but with less supervision to help process the information and
the smattering of views. Divorce and double-income also mean youth
have poorer connections with adults resulting in lower levels of
support during the phase of life in which they (teens) are faced
with new (and often painful) emotional experiences.
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Teens need purpose and teen centers can provide it |
Teens need involvement in their
communities. They need participation in social, environmental and
political causes. They ought to be given the opportunity to change
their world, now.
By providing opportunities for meaningful
volunteer work teens make a difference while getting to know each
other, helping the needy and having a
good time. Every suburban kid ought to spend time in the hood
rebuilding homes for their poverty-stricken brethren.
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Teens need
to belong and be accepted
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Teens who struggle academically or are
alienated at school need a place to belong, and to take part in
activities that either cultivate new skills or tap into latent
talents. As of now, most teens hang out at the mall
or the movie theater, neither of which engage, challenge or
stimulate, and both of which cost money.
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Malls and
Movies
. Perpetuate consumerism and
materialism . Vendors "sell" to youth the unnecessary and
unhealthy . Cost money . Movies direct attention at
stars who don't need any more attention. The person who needs
attention is the fifteen year old in the audience .
Consuming and watching movies are passive acts that induce
little personal growth . Malls and movies are
diversions |
Teen Center
. Creates community . Promotes no consumerism
. Staff and volunteers aren't "selling" but extending .
Activities are inexpensive or free . Belonging and
enjoyment are facilitated via interaction and active (vs.
passive) participation . Teen centers are not diversions or
distractions but, if properly operated, places of healthy
stimulation and political activism in the spirit of changing
for the better |
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Is a teen center really
that important? |
It is if we wish to prepare children for the challenges awaiting them.
What looms for the nation?
Will our children have the character to
sustain economic downturns?
Will they be able to solve the energy
dilemma, sustain the planet and maintain peaceful relations with
other nations?
Will they be of firm mind and spirit?
Will they respond to challenges with
dignity and compassion, self-mastery and self-restraint?
Will our children increase or decrease the
national debt?
As of this writing, the US national debt
stands at $8 trillion, having nearly doubled since 1996 when the
ten-year wave of school shootings began. Might there be a
co-relation between the ill-disciplined spending habits of adults
and the ill-disciplined actions (i.e. bullying, exclusion, school
shootings) of their children?
Will our children cease the violence among
themselves?
Considering the inevitable social and
economic challenges gathering strength, will our children have the
fortitude, maturity, discipline, compassion, coping skills,
awareness of social and environmental issues, knowledge, wisdom and
ability to work together to create for themselves and their children
an economic and social system far more pragmatic, humane, spiritual
and conducive to equality, meaning and peace for all?
Ultimately, we must consider whether we are properly preparing
children not just to be successful, but good.
To act in the best interest of teens is to provide them a
center of creativity, intellectual freedom, activity, activism and
enjoyment.
What is the cost of
not opening a teen center?
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Too much...
Like erosion of our inner
cities, suburbs and towns
Gang fights, school
shootings, suicides, eating disorders
Drug abuse and
pregnancies
Date rape and sexual
assault
Continuation of war, poverty
and homelessness
Alcoholism, depression and
spousal abuse
In short, many social
problems could be prevented by the the provision of healthy
and meaningful activities for those individuals in the most
challenging phase of life. |
Opening a youth center is an opportunity for adults to touch
youth at a crucial period, to make a real and lasting difference in
the lives of the most vulnerable.
Want to launch a program but don't know where to start? I can help you through the initial phase, to make sure your
vision is well defined, your programming ideas are effective and/or that your center provides the right
activities.
I can help you meet the needs of teens.
- I've worked with youth over eleven years
- I've started an after school program for teens
- I've volunteered and worked for numerous non-profits and teen
centers
- I've studied and written about the causes of school shootings
and "at-risk" behavior
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So... what are the lives of young people
worth? |

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INCLUDES THESE SUPPLEMENTS:
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- Sample Membership Form
- Sample Youth Protection Policy
- Five More Ways to Engage Youth
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Why else should you open a youth center? |
"Alternatives programming appears
to be most effective among those youth at greatest risk for
substance abuse and related problems." - A
report by the U.S. Center on Substance Abuse Prevention
"Within the community domain,
higher levels of neighborhood cohesiveness were significantly
associated with lower odds of past year marijuana
use..." - National Household Survey on Drug
Abuse
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